An interview with the one and only Honey Milk (@hon3yxmilk) about their first scene for DykedDown, identifying as pansexual, and how exchanging letters with serial killers inspired the shoot (which you can watch here)
DykedDown: If you could fuck anyone at least once, who would it be and why?
Honey Milk: If I could fuck anyone it would have to be Peter Steele. That son of a bitch was so fucking sexy, and I heard he could lay the pipe.
This was your first paid shoot for an adult company, right? What were your expectations like vs. the reality?
I’m stoked to say this is my first paid / booked scene. I was open to the idea, but I’ve never had the opportunity… so I honestly didn’t know what to expect!
The reality for myself is that communication is number one, being present / comfortable in your skin is key, and if you and your colleague are both sexually intelligent, it’s going to be a hot ass scene like my scene for DykedDown was.
What kinds of erotic / adult content do you like to watch on your own time?
To be honest, I don’t watch too much porn these days… I have a hell of a imagination. Anytime I did/do watch porn it’s lesbian / queer porn, though.
How would you describe your sexuality, both in terms of sexual orientation and personal preferences?
I am pansexual! I am attracted to beautiful people of all different shapes and sizes, male, female, trans, and non-binary. If we vibe — and especially if you’re able to make me laugh — it’s on.
Your DD shoot is the first to not include a strap-on. Broadly speaking, are you a fan of strap-ons — why or why not? And on that note, what are your favorite sex toys?
No, we did not use the strap-on. I’m a fan of the strap-on, but I’m not completely in love with strap-ons being used on me.
Your DD scene involves violent fantasies. Did the concept intimidate or excite you when you first heard about it? How did it feel filming the edgier stuff?
Today’s shoot was inspired by Jeffery Dahmer and Ted Bundy. It didn’t scare me at all. I am not sexually attracted by violence. I have studied these two men for years and it’s extremely fascinating. It was an intense headspace to put yourself in.
The scene you’re in was inspired by real-life serial killers — can you tell me more about that? Who are your favorite serial killers and why do you find them fascinating?
Studying and learning about the occult, the macabre, and serial killers has been a hobby of mine since I was a freshmen in high school. I don’t have a “favorite”; I do not want to ever give the idea that I admire these people — they just fascinate me, studying their lives and their different motives. There are some fucked people out there. A few serial killers that stick in my head are Carl Panzram, Jeffrey Dahmer, Ted Bundy, Peter Kürten, as well as Richard Ramirez. I actually wrote to Richard Ramirez; my dad ripped up the response he mailed to me.
Love your tattoos — very killer. Do you have a personal favorite? Which is your most recent and who inked it?
Thank you! I love all my tattoos, but one of my favorites is my chest piece that connects to my neck and shoulders. I’m in the process of turning it into a full body suit, and I’m more than halfway there. Austin Rojas from “My Old Tattoo Parlor” in California tattoos me! I truly enjoy every session; they are family to me.
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